The Saintly Life of St. Gianna Beretta Molla

On May 16, 2004, Pope St. John Paul II canonized six new saints of the Catholic Church. One of those saints was Saint Gianna Beretta Molla. The Holy Father said,

“Gianna Beretta Molla was a simple, but more than ever, significant messenger of divine love. In a letter to her future husband a few days before their marriage, she wrote: “Love is the most beautiful sentiment the Lord has put into the soul of men and women”.

Following the example of Christ, who “having loved his own… loved them to the end” (Jn 13: 1), this holy mother of a family remained heroically faithful to the commitment she made on the day of her marriage. The extreme sacrifice she sealed with her life testifies that only those who have the courage to give of themselves totally to God and to others are able to fulfill themselves.

Through the example of Gianna Beretta Molla, may our age rediscover the pure, chaste and fruitful beauty of conjugal love, lived as a response to the divine call!”

For my blog post on this self-sacrificing saint written last year, please read – St. Gianna Beretta Molla. I would also encourage you to watch the 5-minute video below that gives a great explanation of her live here on earth.

Please share this post, last years post, and the video below with your family and friends via Email or through the Social Media outlets (Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, etc). Here is the public figure page of St. Gianna on Facebook. There are many of us who know and love this great saint, but I have also noticed this past year that there are many Catholics who do not know her story. We must get the word out about St. Gianna Beretta Molla! Her life of self-sacrifice is needed in the world we live in today.

Saint Gianna Beretta Molla…Pray For Us!


St. Gianna Berreta Molla

I had never heard of Saint Gianna Molla before September 2007. This was the month my friend Erika gave birth to her first daughter, Gianna Rose. Erika and her husband, Dan, decided to name their daughter Gianna after the great modern saint – Saint Gianna Beretta Molla. A few days after giving birth, Erika explained to me briefly the story about Saint Gianna. I was extremely moved by the heroic virtue of this Italian woman. After speaking with Erika, I decided to look up some information about Saint Gianna on the Internet.

When I arrived at the Franciscan University of Steubenville for graduate school in August 2008, one of the first individuals I met on campus was a Franciscan sister by the name of Sister Gianna Marie. Her religious name comes from this Italian saint. I think Our Lord was directing me towards St. Gianna for some reason.

While at graduate school, I wrote a paper on her life for my Historical Foundations course. Being that tomorrow is St. Gianna Berretta Molla’s Feast Day in the Church, I wanted to write about her life a bit since it has been my experience that many people have never heard of her before.

For those that are in the trenches of the Pro-Life Movement, she is an outstanding example of the pro-life woman as well as a catholic saint who will pray for the us, since she gave her life up for her fourth child instead of having an abortion as her doctors suggested.

Being a doctor herself she was fully aware of the dangers on her life, but chose the child’s life over her own. She said if it comes down to saving a life, save the child’s life before mine. After giving birth to her fourth child, Gianna Emanuela, she had an attack and went into a coma; however, she did come out of it.

After awaking from the first coma, the second she would never awake, she said to her husband, “Pietro, I was already there and do you know what I saw?…they sent me down here, to suffer still, because it is not right to come to the Lord without enough suffering.” A few days after giving birth to their fourth child, she passed into eternal glory.

St. Gianna along with her husband, Pietro, are exceptional examples of friendship, self-sacrificial love and holiness. In an age that seeks to destroy sacrificial love and the beauty of marriage between a man and a woman, this couple is a shining light of God’s grace and holiness that everyone, either married or single, should see as the perfect example of what it is to love another before yourself.

During the courtship/dating period, they wrote love letters back and forth to one another. This is a form of self-expression that has been lost in the modern age of communication. It’s so easy to either email or text someone. Sitting down and actually writing a HAND-written love letter, not typed, seems as foreign as the great black and white films of old. Below are some excerpts of their expressions of love for each other:

“I saw Gianna for the first time in 1950 (later he would say he remembers meeting her in 1949)…I was attracted to her…At dinner we sat opposite of each other…from then on, I managed to find opportunities for us to meet.”

“I found her an extraordinarily transparent person, extraordinarily gracious. Her looks, her attitude, her eyes, her beauty made her very attractive. I understood that she was right for me that I would like to be with her. So, I had fallen in love, but I did not find words to express my feelings. Thank God, Gianna was more effusive, more open.”

In her first letter, she said, “I want to make you happy and be what you desire: kind, understanding, and ready for the sacrifices that life will require…Now you are here whom I love, and I intend to give myself to you, to form a truly Christian family.”

Pietro’s response back to her is just as beautiful and engaging. He states, “I have read your letter many times and I have kissed it…I love you, my sweet Gianna…My heart is yours and I want to form my family with you.”

After more letters that are as spectacular as the ones I have quoted; they were married on September 24, 1955. They knelt together before God promising to remain faithful and love each one another “for better or worse.” Vows that would come to fruition very soon.

Now that I have given a glimpse of this wonderful modern saint, I challenge you to go and read more about her life. There are two great books on her life I recommend – Saint Gianna Molla – Wife, Mother, Doctor by Pietro Molla & Elio Gurriero and Saint Gianna Beretta Molla by Giuliana Pelucchi. I would also recommend the website – The Society of St. Gianna Beretta Molla.

As I conclude this blog post, I leave with you the words of Pope St. John Paul II on the day of St. Gianna’s Canonization on May 16, 2004 –

“Gianna Beretta Molla was a simple, but more than ever, significant messenger of divine love. In a letter to her future husband a few days before their marriage, she wrote: “Love is the most beautiful sentiment the Lord has put into the soul of men and women”.

Following the example of Christ, who “having loved his own…loved them to the end” (Jn 13:1), this holy mother of a family remained heroically faithful to the commitment she made on the day of her marriage. The extreme sacrifice she sealed with her life testifies that only those who have the courage to give of ourselves totally to God and to others are able to fulfill themselves. Through the example of Gianna Beretta Molla, may our age rediscover the pure, chaste, and fruitful beauty of conjugal love, lived as a response to the divine call!”

St. Gianna Beretta Molla…Pray for Us!

Holiness and Martyrdom as a Catholic in America

When Cardinal Timothy Dolan received his red hat on February 18, he said that he was grateful to the Holy Father for giving him this honor, but he just wants to be a saint. If I were to sit down with Cardinal Dolan today, I would share with him that the easiest way to canonization, according to the 6th point in the article – Desiderata for 2012 written by Reverend C. John McCloskey III, is to die a martyr. Knowing the extent of Cardinal Dolan’s experience and education, I would imagine that he would already understand this fact. I make this statement because martyrdom is very likely to appear in the United States of America in the years to come. With the greatest threats against Religious Freedom and attacks on the First Amendment this country has ever seen, it it quite possible that not only will our bishops, priests, and religious face martyrdom, but many faithful and obedient Catholics who will not comply with a tyrannical government could as well. I will let this marinate in your minds return to it at the end.

With that being said, the purpose of my blog is to engage and educate the Catholic lay faithful in the New Evangelization. It’s my hope that through my writing, I will help teach the “basics” of the Catholic faith for Catholic adults, who did receive proper catechesis as adolescents. In the words of Our Lord Jesus Christ and one of his great vicars and universal shepherds, we must remember – “Be Not Afraid!” We must not be afraid of what lies ahead of us or be afraid to learn more about Catholicism. Today, I will discuss holiness, what it means to be saint, and martyrdom.

In Thessalonians 1:6-7, St. Paul says, “you become imitators of us and of the Lord…you became an example to all the believers…” To be holy and to seek perfection is not an option, but an obligation. As followers of Jesus Christ, we must always thrive to be saints. Every Christian has the capacity of becoming a saint. Our purpose in life is to be holy in imitation of Jesus Christ, who is all holy. He is to be our perfect model. As St. Paul says in Corinthians 11:1 – “Be imitators of me, as I am of Christ.”

What is holiness?

Holiness is the separation of the irreverent, seeking and giving oneself to God. God is the foundation of holiness because God is all goodness. The invitation to holiness and goodness comes from God himself.  As Christians, to be holy is to bring our best versions to the world. However, because we suffer from the remnants of Original Sin, it can be difficult and challenging at times to live a life of holiness. We must always remember that we have Jesus Christ as our model and strength and should never get discouraged. Even the greatest saints of the Catholic Church had their struggles and moments of weakness.

What is a saint? Who is called to be a saint? When do we receive this call?

A saint is a person who thrives to live a life of holiness with the help of God’s grace and attains the prize of eternal life (CCC 828). The word saint comes from the Latin term – sanctus, which means “holy.” Sanctification is the process where one is made holy.

All Christians are called to holiness. We are called to holiness after receiving the Sacrament of Baptism. In Baptism, we are claimed and adopted by God as his children. We are restored to the filial (sonship) relationship that was established first and foremost with the first man. In our Baptism, we receive the three theological virtues of Faith, Hope, and Charity. We also share in the three Old Testament offices that are fulfilled by Jesus – Priest, Prophet, and King.

To be a saint is to live a life dedicated to heroism. Heroism is about self-sacrificial deeds; it’s not about self-glorification and narcissism. It requires one to live with heroic virtue! G.K. Chesterton said, the “saints are the heroes of the Church.” Zorro has always been one of my favorite literary heroes. When I think about Zorro, the words of self-sacrifice, strength, goodness, and servant of the people come to mind. Just as Zorro is a great hero, so must we thrive to live lives dedicated to self-sacrifice, goodness, and serving others. Throughout the history of the Catholic Church, there have been many men and women who have answered the call to live lives of heroic virtue and self-sacrifice. In recent years, I think of Blessed Teresa of Calcutta, St. Gianna Beretta Molla, Blessed John Paul II, and St. Jose Maria Escriva. These men and women truly lived their lives for Jesus Christ and were filled with joy. St. Teresa of Avila said to be a saint is to live life with joy and passion – “a sad saint is not a saint at all.”

Living the life of a saint is not always the most popular lifestyle in our culture or period of history. To be a saint is to be counter-cultural just as the Church is counter-cultural. During his three-year ministry, Jesus himself was counter-cultural for he ate with sinners, spoke with woman (some became his disciples), and countered the elders of the faith.

Most Reverend Thomas J. Olmsted, Bishop of Phoenix says, “Christ does not call us to be popular, or even successful. He calls us to take up the cross each day and follow him. There is only one ultimate failure in life: not to be a saint. Nothing else in life matters, compared to the treasure of Christ’s love.”

As Catholics, how do we become saints seeking holiness?

First, we must receive the Sacraments. Although all seven are fundamental, Reconciliation and Holy Eucharist can be received on a daily basis. The Sacrament of Reconciliation assists us in our relationship with Our Lord and allows us to restore our personal relationship with him when it is severed. If you have not been in some time, I encourage you to find a time and go. The Sacrament of Holy Eucharist is the life giving bread of Jesus Christ. It not only nourishes our physical body, but gives us spiritual strength as well. It is truly Christ’s body, blood, soul, and divinity. Next, we need spiritual direction. A director of our interior life will aid us in our prayer and help us to discern God’s will for our lives. Lastly, reading the Scriptures, Lives of the Saints, or other spiritual texts will engage us to know God in a personal way and will also assist in our relationship with Our Lord and His Church.

As Catholics who are striving to live lives of holiness, learning each day how to be saints, and living contradictory to the world around us will often bring times of hostility and persecution. We saw this in the Early Church as Christianity grew. Hostility and persecution rose up to meet Christianity and the martyrs of the Early Church were born. The word martyr comes from the Greek term – witness.  St. Stephen, the first martyr of the Christian faith was stoned to death (Acts 7:54-60). Other individuals such as St. Lawrence, St. Ignatius of Antioch, St. Martina of Rome, and eleven of the twelve apostles (excluding John) and many others all died the martyr’s death. In his Letter to the Romans, St. Ignatius of Antioch says about his impending martyrdom, “…Come fire, cross, battling with wild beasts…only let me get to Jesus Christ…I would rather die.”

There are two forms of martyrdom – red martyrdom and white martyrdom. Red martyrdom is witnessing to the faith where a person endures death. The Church proclaims those who are killed for the faith are baptized by blood and are directed straight to heaven. The red martyrs are genuine examples of heroic fortitude and conviction that is unparallel. White martyrdom (dry martyrdom) is social persecution rather than death. This form of martyrdom is when a person or group of persons are attacked either verbally or in writing for having a conviction of faith or when they choose not to violate their moral conscience. This is the most common form of martyrdom for us Catholics in America to date, but that could change soon.

Although the 20th century witnessed more red martyrs for the faith around the world than any other century, here in the United States white martyrdom was more common. However, in recent years and with the multiplying of the culture wars, white martyrdom has dramatically increased against Catholics in general (see Huffington Post article). With the announcement of the HHS Mandate and the so-called “compromise”, verbal and hate filled attacks have been on the rise against Catholics since we stand against this unjust law. We will not allow a tyrannical government like the Obama Administration to force us into anything that contradicts our Religious Freedom and First Amendment Rights on the grounds of “women’s health” (see yesterday’s results from the Blunt Amendment – right down party lines). We will not comply!

In the 1920’s, the government of Mexico declared war on the Catholic Church killing bishops, priests, religious brothers and sisters, and lay faithful in the streets. It was terrible time for the Church in Mexico and many good and faithful people lost their lives. If the dangers we have now continue and the current administration is re-elected for four more years, Mexico from the 1920’s could appear on the shores and in the heartland of the United States.